Why do you need a self-healing coach?
Much of my coaching content can be found in my books again. So why book expensive consulting sessions?
There are numerous answers to this question. At this point, I will pick out only the most important three:
- Illness comes because one has gone astray in one way or another. Sometimes the body has been neglected (too) long, sometimes it is the soul and practically always the "right thinking". So it is necessary to take daily steps in a new direction. And only very few people succeed in doing this for more than a few days. Therefore, it makes sense to take a guide, a companion, who with a lot of empathy again and again points out the necessary changes.
- One of the central supports in self-healing is the Bengston method. This very special mental "dislocation" brings subtle processes into motion, which supports healing in a very welcome way. You know this from riding a bicycle. It makes a huge difference whether the wind blows in your face or comes right from behind. And the Bengston Method is just that favorable tailwind. I will take you by the hand while you learn this method, and while you are still practicing, you will already experience the effect that comes from the joint purposeful "cycling".
- Every person has his or her "sore spots". These are - similar to a sticker on the back - hardly noticeable themselves. After all, the field of vision is limited. Through my experience, I have already found numerous such stickers and acted on their removal.
My strategic training shows you what you can do day by day to move in small but continuous steps towards the big goal.
What comes out of it in practice, what results are possible through the targeted self-healing work?
This is an excerpt from my book "How Healing Still Works" (part of Section E):
Healing successes from practice
- Stories of successful self-healers
As evidence that the following reports depict true events, they are linked to personal statements of the people appearing in them.
Cancer cure without a doctor
It was a moment he will probably never forget when Felix, in his mid-thirties, learned from the ENT doctor that he had nasal carcinoma. The clearly visible lump under his ear was probably "only" a metastasis. The radiation therapy that was now to be started was very risky due to the close proximity to the brain and eyes, but in the end there was no alternative. "You'll have to deal with that now," the doctor says and says goodbye with a smile.
But Felix didn't want to resign himself so easily to these depressing prospects. He researched forums and Facebook groups and found numerous tips and alternative healing approaches.
The problem with this is that there is no universal solution. What produces wonderful results for one person remains ineffective for another. So what to do?
Two doctor's appointments, which are supposed to clarify further details about the illness, come to nothing. One is cancelled due to an emergency in the practice, and the X-ray machine fails at the other.
Felix took this as a signal and said to himself: "The solution lies within me".
At the end of November 21 we start our cooperation.
We create a comprehensive catalog of measures, which can be summarized as follows:
- Build physically
- Mental clean up
- Blossom spiritually
I state that Felix has a strong inner will to restructure his life. After the diagnosis, he moves from Berlin to live with his parents on Lake Constance. He had never really felt comfortable in the big city.
Despite great physical weakness, we implement the basic pillars of self-healing. Finally, he lets me encourage him to travel to Berlin and to dissolve his apartment there. In order to be able to bring his most important things with him, he even buys a car for this purpose. The matter is connected with great efforts for him because of partly heavy pains, but in the end Felix has closed a chapter in his life which was connected with a lot of toil and worry for him.
He then decides not to spend Christmas with his family, but to take a road trip through southern Europe. On December 23, he leaves - still severely weakened and in pain - for Spain in wintry temperatures. His tour lasts two weeks, during which he sleeps almost exclusively in his car.
The unfamiliar environment gives him a lot of new inspiration and energy. As a coach, I know that it is above all the time spent alone that often produces profound, but above all healing insights.
And so it is with Felix: In the distance, he can look at his life with distance and recognize what needs (urgent) change. Together we work on solutions for family issues, professional aspects and relationship questions. Felix's most important insight, however, concerns his own thinking. Through extensive introspection, he realizes how negative his inner orientation is in many respects.
"Today I know and feel that it was predominantly this negativity in thinking that made me sick," he says in our interview, which you can watch in full here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWwHPorZr4c
Analyzing and changing one's own thinking is not an easy undertaking. But when it succeeds, it changes the person in a profound way. And as a result, the whole life changes. It is like beaming a new magnetic field out into the world, under which the iron filings called life circumstances rearrange and realign themselves accordingly. This is radical re-mission (as described in the chapter of the same name).
Felix, however, practices numerous other techniques and rituals in parallel that do him good. He begins to bless not only every meal, but also strangers he meets while walking. He continuously expands his daily strength training, so that after a few weeks he has visibly gained muscle mass. A fact that literally strengthens him and encourages him to continue on the path he has now chosen.
He also consistently and ultimately successfully applies the appropriate techniques for transforming acute disharmony into peace.
He also allows his body long rest periods and sleeps up to 14 hours a day.
The lump under the ear disappeared a few months after the initial diagnosis. Felix also feels much more vital in other ways. He knows that even if not all of life's challenges have been completely overcome, he now has powerful tools with which he can overcome existing and future obstacles. Never again will he drift into an (inner) environment that favors serious illness.
When we are in contact shortly before this book goes to press, Felix tells me that he has just won Germany's biggest speaker competition! Not bad credentials for an aspiring rhetoric trainer, I think.
Hardly anyone would believe that he has not actually visited a doctor since the initial diagnosis.
In our in-depth interview, Felix describes many more details of his story. You can watch it here in full length:
At this point I would like to point out that Felix's approach described here should not be interpreted as a general recommendation to avoid doctors in general.
Breakthrough instead of collapse
In 2010, Karin underwent surgery on her pleura. Like her mother and sister, she had been diagnosed with mesothelioma (cancer of the pleura). After the operation, the disease seemed to have been conquered for ten years. But then Karin suddenly noticed that abdominal fluid was being produced again, an unmistakable sign of renewed tumor activity. Her sister and her mother had already died of this rare type of cancer by this time. The doctors were more or less at a loss.
Karin realized that she had to take matters into her own hands. She simply did not want to accept that she should be "next.
She goes to the only clinic in Austria that offers the new Pipac therapy. This makes it possible to deliver a chemotherapeutic agent directly to the affected area in the abdomen. Unfortunately, the hoped-for success did not materialize. Karin now decides to concentrate fully on the self-healing program, which we develop together in spring 2021.
She begins to bless, works every morning with my "Artwork Future Method" (for details see "Energetic Healing Sources") and treats herself to intensive exercise in the fresh air every day. In addition, she does breathing exercises, begins to play music again, practices the Bengston energy healing method together with me and begins to travel
She travels often. Sometimes she visits an Austrian lake, sometimes an Italian beach, sometimes she spends a month almost continuously alone in a mountain hut. The loneliness is not a burden for her, but quite the opposite, pure joy. A small side effect is that she can now do not only what she wants, but also when she wants. As a result, she gets a reasonable amount of sleep for the first time in many years.
"It wasn't until then that I knew how it felt to really get back into your power," she says in the You-Tube interview with me, which you can watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8UYwiG67ws
Sometime in the summer she writes me the following Whatsapp message:
"When did I ever stop dreaming?
Stopped listening to my heart,
to feel what makes me happy?
Where my longing directs me?
And instead of doing that,
What you think as a 'reasonable' person?"
Karin feels that she wants to attract more spontaneity, more confidence, more courage and more laughter into her life again and thinks intensively about how these factors can be given more space in the future. Together we analyze the personal "spider's web" and work on the "energy magnet". According to the motto: If the arrangement of the chips (outer world) is to be changed, the magnetic alignment (inner world) must be adjusted.
In the summer, she receives an offer to take over the management of the kindergarten where she had previously worked for many years. After struggling with herself for a while, she finally declines, thus forgoing financial incentives. But she now wants to continue on the path she has taken and not return to her old ways.
Here is another poem by Karin, which she wrote during the time of silence:
So many words remained unsaid,
So many tears never cried
So many opportunities unused
So many longings never fulfilled
I have never lived so many dreams
So many feelings suppressed
So much seriousness and too little laughter
So much fear and too little courage
So many worries and too little confidence
So much rigidity and too little spontaneity
So many compromises and too little clarity
So many duties and too little life
So many plans and too much "tomorrow
Do it, speaks life.
Now!
The intensive and profound self-healing work is not without effect. The abdominal fluid, which Karin previously had to have drained every 2 weeks in the hospital, now flows much more slowly and only needs to be pumped out every 5 weeks. The changed basic emotional vibration is reflected by the body, which can be seen as a great and highly encouraging signal, since it indicates that the tumor activity has been reduced.
"I've fallen in love with life all over again" says Karin at the end of 2021 and it shows.
She shares more details about Karin's fascinating story herself in our YouTube interview.
Operation canceled, ulcer gone
Tobias had already been struggling with heartburn for some time. In the summer of 2021, reflux was added, but this did not bother him any further. It wasn't until he had lost a full eight kilos within two and a half months that he went to the doctor. He discovered abdominal fluid in the ultrasound. A gastroscopy in the hospital resulted in the diagnosis "gastric carcinoma, metastasizing to the peritoneum.
On the very day of the diagnosis, he decides to give up the most stressful part of his job (construction management).
In October 21 Tobias undergoes chemotherapy, which lasts for three and a half months. At the same time, he begins working with me and we implement a series of self-healing measures.
Tobias goes to the countryside every few weeks and seeks silence. In seclusion, he has the peace to look at all aspects of his life from a certain distance. He identifies habits of the past that were probably not very beneficial to his health and well-being. Together with his partner, he resolves to optimize some things.
Despite chemotherapy, Tobias practices cardiovascular training, breathing exercises and gentle muscle building. He takes every opportunity to spend time in nature. Above all, he allows himself to analyze his thinking. As a result, he recognizes various patterns and automatisms and looks for ways to change them in a constructive way. This aspect of self-healing training is almost the most difficult, but at the same time probably the most important. For instead of letting "it" think, a kind of "conductor" must now come on the scene to ensure order and harmony. This starts inside and after a certain time is reflected by the body (details in the chapter "Radio program for the cells").
We also look at subtle ways that support the journey back to health.
Today Tobias speaks of a significantly developed intuition, and the gift of receiving dream messages.
He survives the conventional medical measures very well, the side effects of the chemotherapy are very low. He does not lose any weight and seems to be fit all around even during the entire treatment, as is also confirmed by the doctors with some astonishment.
However, during the renewed laparoscopy at the end of January, i.e. immediately after the completion of chemotherapy, a 1.5cm ulcer is discovered in the liver. According to the doctors, this would have to be surgically removed, which is why an appointment for surgery was made for the beginning of March.
About three weeks before this appointment, Tobias and I work together almost daily, connecting for 30 minutes each and practicing William Bengston's Cycling Method together. As a common picture we have the following scenario: The planned surgery does not have to be performed. Reason: Tobias' liver is completely healthy and inconspicuous.
And that's exactly how it turns out.
You can here the voice message Tobias sent me after he heard the good news:
The joy that flooded through me as well was indescribable. Once again, it had been proven what gigantic powers are waiting in us to (finally) be used.
What happened next with Tobias?
In mid-March 22, he states on record, "Feel 100% healthy!"
He rejects a so-called maintenance therapy in the form of further chemotherapy after only one dose. He is confident that his body is on a very good path and does not want to burden it any more with the potential side effects of chemo.
He consistently sticks to the new habits, actively exercises four to five days a week and puts his own well-being first, even though he has plenty of work commitments as a self-employed architect.
Continues to keep track of his thinking habits and strives to quickly get back on track once negativity sets in.
As is so often the case, the doctors treating him attest to an unusual physical, but above all mental robustness.
Here is another statement that I remember from Tobias: "In the hospital, I often had the feeling that I had much more confidence than the doctors treating me. It's going to be okay' was a sentence I didn't want to hear. heardbut the i directed at physicians."
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